He also loved the 3rd wife very much and was always showing her off to neighboring kingdoms. However, he feared that one day she would leave him for another.
He loved his 2nd wife as well. She was his confidant and was always kind, considerate and patient with him. Whenever the King faced a problem, he could confide in her, and she would help him get through the difficult times.
The King’s 1st wife was a very loyal partner and had made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and kingdom. However, surprisingly he did not love her. Although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.
One day, the King became sick and he knew his time was short. He thought of his luxurious life and wondered, “I now have four wives with me, but when I die, I’ll be all alone.” Thus, he asked the 4th wife, “I have loved you the most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No way!”, replied the 4th wife, and she walked away without another word. Her answer cut like a sharp knife right into his heart.
The sad King then asked the 3rd wife, “I have loved you all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No!”, replied the 3rd wife. “Life is too good. When you die, I’m going to remarry!” His heart sank and turned cold.
Disheartened, he asked the 2nd wife, “I have always turned to you for help, and you’ve always been there for me. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?” “I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!”, replied the 2nd wife. “At the very most, I can only send you to your grave.” Her answer came like a bolt of lightning, and the King was devastated.
Then a voice called out: “I will leave with you and follow you no matter where you go.” The King looked up, and saw that it was his 1st wife. She was so skinny as she suffered from malnutrition and neglect. Greatly grieved, the King said, “I should have taken much better care of you when I had the chance.”
In a spiritual sense, we all have 4 wives in our lives:
- Our 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it will leave us when we die.
- Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, it will all go to others.
- Our 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how much they have been there for us, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
- Finally, our 1st wife is OUR SOUL!
It is our soul that is often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and worldly pleasures, however, it is the only thing that will follow us wherever we go. So, cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of us who will follow us to the throne of God and continue with us throughout Eternity. It will last forever.
Matthew 16:26 asks, “What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?”
Praise God that those of us who have accepted Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior can hold fast to the word in 1 John 2:25: “And this is the promise that He hath promised us, even eternal life.”