Don’t fall into despair,
Relive the special times we shared
I promise you, I will be there.
You will find me in the stories
Of loved ones who stop by,
I am the flickering candlelight
My Spirit did not die.
Continue with all the traditions
And gather around the tree,
I want you to be happy
You are everything to me!
So, fill the house with laughter
And know that I am a part.
Of all the joy the season holds
Here always . . . in your heart!
Most of us have experienced the loss of someone who held a special place in our hearts. It could be a parent, child, other family member, or a close friend. Regardless of the relationship, even during the most wonderful time of the year, we are reminded how much we miss them. It is not necessarily full-blown, heartbreaking grieving or even sadness – although it can be and that is okay – we just feel a void like a Christmas tree without lights.
In reading the poem, be reminded that the spirits of our loved ones never die. Their love, the fond memories will live in our hearts until we too pass into eternity. Our loved ones want us to live on and feel joy, comfort, and peace while we are still in this world. They want us to feel joy, peace, and comfort even if they are no longer with us in the physical world. It is never going to be the same but we can go on finding new ways to honor them and include them in our celebrations.
It will not be easy but with the strength of the Lord, we can get through it. Just remember they are ALWAYS with us and most importantly, so is the one whom we celebrate at Christmas. The Christ-child who became our King and Savior is always with us and He understands our feelings.
So, celebrate as best you can and imagine how they are celebrating. Merry Christmas!